hear me out.

A few weeks ago, I shared a post on cleaning up my Pinterest. Consider this post an important continuation on a similar and equally important topic. I am writing this post to support the people who spend their lives making the content we pin so freely. They work tirelessly to design the rooms, style the outfits, and whip up recipes so they can share their talents with the world. The absolutely awful part of what is happening is that some bloggers {and pinners} are taking the hard work of others and passing it off as their own. When did this ever become ok?!


#1: Using a photo found on Pinterest and not properly sourcing it in a blog post. 
Properly sourcing a photo does not simply mean providing the URL for the individual pin--or better yet, a general Pinterest user profile. It means going the distance and finding the actual source of the pin. {If you didn't install it after my initial post, you need to install this bookmarklet pronto.}

#2: Sharing photos in a post with the intention of gaining traffic--even though the content is not yours.
Let's be honest: we all know the power of Pinterest when it comes to generating traffic for our blogs. We know a few good pins can help tremendously with pageviews. This knowledge does not mean we should use it to our advantage at the mercy of those who created the content for the pin. They deserve the credit for their efforts to make the "pretty" we share.

#3: Executing #2 and then self-pinning from a generic blog URL rather than an actual post. 
Again I say: we all know well what a game-changer Pinterest can be. The tough part of this equation is that when trying to track down sources, pinning from a generic blog URL stinks. It takes much more time to track down the pin than should ever be necessary. Though bloggers can't control how other people pin from their blogs, bloggers can certainly be aware of how they do it on their own.

#4: Pinning without first looking to see if the pin is properly sourced.
I see some of the biggest brands, bloggers, magazines, and pinners violating this every day. This is far from ok. I have learned to maximize the "like" feature of Pinterest as a way to try and combat this. If I'm on my phone or don't have time to track down a source, I will "like" something to save it for potential pinning. This way, I'm not further perpetuating a bad source by pinning it first and sourcing it later.

The reality is this...
We should be pinning in a supportive manner--rather than one which works for our own gain. 
I may sound naïve, but I get it. Maybe the people who have "gamed" the system really know "what's up"...but I would rather reach readers with content that is my own, even if I'm incorporating the work of others. It simply requires the appropriate sourcing to make it right. {If anyone else can help me say this, it's Leela Cyd.}

What am I doing to change things? I'm still working diligently to clean up my entire Pinterest. Each and every pin I've shared since my #cleanupyourpinterest post has been sourced as accurately as humanly possible. I am also making a whole-hearted effort to give more credit where credit is due when I make photo collages {see example here and here}. I wouldn't be able to make such a collage without their photos after all. I know it takes a little extra time, but we should willingly give that time in return for using the content of others.

Should you still be reading by this point in the post, thank you: it shows a real commitment to making the blogosphere a better place. If, as a result of this post, you realize you've been doing any one of these things, there is always time to change! I'm far from perfect {and will never be}, but I'm going to try my best to be cognizant moving forward. I know it is worth writing this crazy long post to change where things are headed. One day, when we're all successful fill-in-the-blank-here's, we will be eternally grateful for the people who shared our work the right way.

marvelous monotone.

While in Paris this summer, I noticed countless women sporting "monotone" looks. For Friday's Fancies this week, I decided it would be fun to play out this look en masse. To get inspired, I picked a few of my favorite looks and expanded on their color palettes.

{Sources: The Sartorialist by Scott Schuman | Elle by Courtney D'Alesio | Tuula by Zanita Morgan}

Here are three incredible interpretations which magically channel monotone:

{Photo from The Sartorialist | Taken by Scott Schuman} 

This outfit may not have fifty shades of gray, but this lovely lady rocks a few shades of gray to a tee.

{Photo from Atlantic-Pacific}

Everyone's favorite blogger, Blair, nails the monotone look by picking hues in the same color
family and then incorporating a few other fabulous pieces to knock this outfit out of the park.

{Photo from Could I Have That? | Taken by Leela Cyd}

Samantha is as pretty as a peach. This ensemble proves just how well monotone really works.

Pulling together this post made me feel even more confident that I must try this look soon!
Trying it out for Friday's Fancies this week may just push me over the edge ;)


P.S. Have questions about joining the Friday's Fancies family? Email me and I'd be happy to help!

the city of light.

Remember when we went to Paris two months ago? Remember when I still haven't finished my trip recaps? I know it may be fall in Paris now, but I thought a few snaps of summer in the City of Light would be good for the soul this Tuesday. These photos capture a few of the little moments from our walks through the streets of Paris...


Most of you know I love cobalt blue--this city just furthered my obsession.


If every day could start with Nutella, it would be a good day.


I have--and always will--love neon. Multiple examples can be found below...


Our hotel was just up the street from the Musée Rodin, so we had to make a stop. {cv} and I really enjoyed this little oasis in the city. Make time for it if you can! {The first photo in this post is from the sculpture gardens there too. Imagine The Thinker in person, surrounded by flowers!}


Sacré Coeur and Montmartre are favorite stops for us. I loved this gorgeous fence along the basilica. 


I loved the simplicity of this sign...


In 2010, we spent our Parisian honeymoon on Rue Rivoli. When we went by our old hotel this summer, the ferris wheel in the Tuileries was hard to miss.


Embarrassingly enough, we spent the first night of our honeymoon and the last night of our latest French adventure at the {touristy} Le Champ de Mars--a few blocks from the Eiffel Tower. 



A post about Paris wouldn't be complete without a photo of the Eiffel Tower. We picnicked 
and sipped champagne while waiting to see it sparkle on our last night {as seen here}.


I'm ready to go back. NOW. {Want more from Paris? See my other posts here and here!} These photos have me craving another vacay...maybe Santorini this time? sigh. Enjoy your Tuesday, friends! 


P.S. Remember these pants? Make them your own for less than $35. Thank me later ;)

quiet is good.

Truth: I had bold plans for this weekend. {cv} planned a few days away with his dad and uncles--and I had the apartment all to myself. I could finally tackle the growing pile of files, clean out our closets, and generally get ahead for the upcoming week.

Reality: I made a trip to IKEA and treated myself to a cinnamon roll for dinner. I organized like a madwoman. I started Revenge from the beginning. I didn't instagram. I cuddled my cats. I nursed my bum knee. I played my music loud. I loved every minute of it.


I am admittedly horrible at taking it easy. I always have been and worry I always will. I cannot tell you the last weekend I had--by myself--at home. We spent nearly every weekend of the summer on the road, so the honest-to-goodness truth was that I was really excited to slow down for a few days this weekend.

I used to assume quiet weekends signaled a boring void of time, which I now know is not the case. I am now {almost} up-to-speed on the Revenge hype {but please no spoilers!}. I also pinpointed my pen hoarding tendencies {I may have one from every hotel we've stayed in over the last 7 years--#oops}. I could go on, but I won't. Suffice it to say, this weekend was exactly what I needed. My to-do list may not be complete, but I'm headed into Monday knowing I can tackle this week. This weekend definitely reminded me that quiet is good.