spring cleaning with thredup.

spring cleaning: the easy way!
FYI: this post is not sponsored by thredUP, though if you do join, I may receive referral credits. I'm sharing the thredUP knowledge to simplify your spring cleaning!
Spring cleaning: I loathe doing it, but I love being done with it. In recent years, my biggest frustration has been figuring out a way to thin out my closet without sacrificing a pretty penny. I tried the eBay route, but I always end up frustrated with the selling and shipping process. Some bloggers successfully juggle separate Instagram feeds for clothing sales, but I don't have time for all of the management. Knowing that it was time to do a serious round of spring cleaning, I heavily researched online consignment and chose to work with thredUP

After you request a bag from thredUP, you can expect to find it in your mailbox within a few days. I filled mine to the brim with everything under the sun {within their guidelines, of course}. The only painstaking thing about the whole process is waiting for them to assess your bag. Once they do, it feels like Christmas morning when you receive the email about your payout! You can choose to get thredUP money or get paid cash through PayPal. Pretty good deal, if you ask me!

Though I haven't purchased anything from the retail side of thredUP, I am constantly impressed with how they assemble with boutiques and style shops--some of which have featured my pieces! If you find something you like, they also allow you to click through to see what other items were in their bag. Often, it could mean someone who is similar in size and style to you! thredUP also offers maternity and children's clothes, two genres of clothing which women and kids quickly outgrow. A little patience could help you find some serious diamonds in the rough from brands you love.

As an aside, I used Twice last spring before we made our move across town. I wasn't thrilled with my payout, but the process was relatively simple. Beyond just the payout, I definitely preferred thredUP to Twice by a long shot. thredUP is super communicative. They also seem to take much more care with the photography and choice of items. I have already ordered {and packed} another bag to go back--and my closet feels better than ever. For me, it isn't a stretch to call thredUP the easy way to spring clean. Have you used thredUP or found any other spring cleaning methods that work well for you? I am all ears! xoxo {av}

what I learned from Forrest Gump.

don't ever let anyone tell you they're better than you. #forrestgump

I'm sure you have a list of movies which always detracts from your task at hand. My short list includes: You've Got Mail, Notting Hill, and Forrest Gump. {Apparently, I love '90s movies.} Over the course of the last week, I stumbled on Forrest Gump three times. Though I've seen it more times than I can count, I tuned in and caught different portions of the movie each time. I think there is so much to learn from Forrest--beyond his box of chocolates.

Hearing Forrest's mother utter the quote above to him in one of the early scenes of the movie struck me in a way it hadn't before. Like pretty much every teenage girl, I struggled with the whole self-acceptance thing in those dark middle and high school years. I was never good enough--and I fought hard to try and prove myself. It is funny to think a movie could bring this sort of clarity, but go with me here: my teenage self thought it had something to prove to the world, but my late 20s self realizes the person I really had to impress was myself.

I demand excellence of myself. I don't do things halfway. I am definitely a perfectionist. Being out of my blogging groove in the last few months feels...weird. I miss posting more often, but sometimes, I realize that real life trumps the hours I spend crafting a post. With so much going on behind the scenes with our house, I would rather give you two good posts a week than four or five that are mediocre at best. I don't know why seeing Forrest Gump caused a lightbulb moment for me, but it did. I don't need to be like every super human who somehow cranks out twenty crazy good posts a month. Why? I am happy with the few in which I pour my heart and soul.

What I learned from Forrest Gump {or from Winston Groom--the author behind his story} is this: what I create is enough. The game of comparison is not one I enjoy, but it is one in which I sadly participate. If blogging were easy, everyone would do it. With my 29th birthday looming in May, my goal for the coming year is to finally embrace me. Others' stars may rise, but I'll be happy with wherever mine shines.

Thanks for reading this long, somewhat cheesy post. Claiming Forrest taught me anything could be construed as a stretch, but I promise you it's not. I cannot send enough gratitude to those readers who stick by me, through thick and thin. I read each of your comments and cherish them. You keep me encouraged and inspired, so thank you from the bottom of my heart. For those who celebrate, Happy Easter! xoxo {av}

10 no-brush blushes.

10 no-brush + no-fuss blush options!

If I could describe my make-up routine in one word, it would be simple. I wear make-up on an almost daily basis, but I like to keep my application to under three minutes. {I value my beauty sleep!} It may sound crazy, but I have it down to a bit of science. When I found blush sticks, I discovered a "grown-up" version of the gel blush from Bonne Bell that I used to wear in 1999. While I do use a brush for my bronzer, I don't want to tote around a separate one for my blush. I love the fact I can concentrate my blush in one particular area with a blush stick.

I have both the NARS and Tarte sticks, which are easy to pack for work trips, vacations, and spontaneous weekends away. I like the NARS stick for everyday use. The Tarte stain is often my date night and special occasion pick for its bold color.  I love the dewy look that both give, but most of all, I love their simplicity. Do you use a blush stick or are you a fan of more "traditional" blush? xoxo {av}

four years.

Alison and Chris from Kate Headley on Vimeo.

Four years ago, I married my best friend. We were lucky enough to have Kate Headley capture it on film. {True story: Kate was the only photographer I approached to shoot our wedding. I knew she had to be the one who captured our day from the moment I first saw her photos.} 

I share this video every year, but I do so because it truly captures the happiness of the day in a way that words cannot. I'm so lucky to share a life with {cv}--one we always dreamed of during our long distance days. In so many ways, our wedding allowed us to finally close the door on those years and open up a life of togetherness. Sorry for the repeat share, but in the very least, I hope it brightens your Thursday like it did mine! xoxo {av}