for the short term.

I hope your Monday is going swimmingly :) I apologize for the barrage of posts today, but there is oh-so-much to share. I can't thank you enough for all the prayers and well wishes you sent this direction on Friday. My mom made it through surgery without issue--yay!--but the recovery process has now begun. We're taking it one day at a time, but I'm home until early December to help her get settled. 
That being said, this time in Indiana does throw a little long distance back in the mix...


Truth be told, {cv} and I will see each other during my Hoosier stint, but it doesn't make up for the fact that our "normal" isn't so normal right now. He arrives tomorrow from the Ocean State and will be helping me to prepare a Thanksgiving feast since my sweet momma cannot this year. {cv}'s visit to Indiana bridges the weeks I am spending here, so I cannot complain in the slightest. It did rouse a few memories from our years apart and got me thinking about surviving the "short term" long distance stints. 

Back in our true long distance days, I learned to cherish the minutes we had on the phone together. The same holds true in this shorter periods of long distance. I love hearing his voice on the other end of the line and treasure hearing little tidbits about "our" life in Rhode Island. The difference between the longer and the shorter stints is the perspective I have from those years we spent apart. If we can survive those, a few weeks here and there are no match for us. I count my blessings every day for that frame of reference.

It's weird to say, but as I get older {ew?!}, I realize more and more about how your past experiences really shape the person you become. {Note: I didn't say make you the person you become.} Life is truly a series of experiences that mold us into the people we're meant to be. I also think God is up there with His hands in all of it. Regardless of where you stand on that topic, it is incredible to look back and see how far you've come--whether you're 19, 26, or 37 ;) Have a great Monday, everyone--I'll see you back here tomorrow!

P.S. Two of my best friends in the whole world were born within two days of one another.
Crazy right?! Countless happy birthday wishes for {jt} + {ch}! I love you ladies :)

16 comments:

  1. You are so sweet for going to be with your mom as she recovers...even if that puts distance between you and your man again! It will go by fast my dear! :) Have a wonderful Monday!

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  2. This is so cute! I hope your mom has a nice and easy recovering. Good luck in taking over Thanksgiving :) I know what you mean about the shorter long distance stints. I know that when Jeremy goes away for training it can't be as difficult as him being gone for an entire year in Afghanistan :) And the long distance thing does really shape who you are as a person!

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  3. So glad your mom is ok and praying for her fast recovery!

    Thanks so much for sharing about how to survive being apart, my hubs is going to have to travel to canada for 4 months in the spring for training and I'm already dreading it! I need all the advice I can get!

    eileen
    www.acreativedayblog.com

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  4. So happy to hear that your mom's surgery went well and she's recovering nicely at home.
    I love reading about your long distance story. My college boyfriend and I were long distance and while I'm no longer with him, I completely agree that the time I spent in a long distance relationship with him helped to shape the person I am in my current relationship.
    Hope you have a fantastic week!

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  5. I love reflecting back on where I came from... God does some big things!

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  6. Hope your momma is feeling better. And trust me, I understand cherishing every minute on the phone :)

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  7. Enjoy your time at home. Your mom is so lucky to have you and {cv} help out with everything! Best wishes for a healthy recovery for her. :)

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  8. you are such a good daughter! so glad your mom is ok and that you can be there for her! xoxo

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  9. Your mom is so lucky to have a great daughter like yourself! Best of luck preparing Thanksgiving, we're hosting it at our house this year so it will be chaotic.

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  10. Best wishes for you and your mother! And I totally agree with you about experiences shaping your personality.

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  11. This was such a sweet post - definitely the reason I read your blog :) My prayers continue to be with you and your Mom! xoxo, eliza

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  12. I am so sad I can't make the blogger blitz in Indy :( Have fun back home though! Warning: the weather sucks and is cold and rainy :(

    Have a fabulous Thanksgiving!

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  13. so sweet of you to take care of your momma. praying for her recovery and for you and cv's long distance relationship!! xoxo

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  14. I hope your mom recovers fast and gets better soon ;)

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