tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post4658414154195537707..comments2024-03-27T20:00:36.440-04:00Comments on {long distance loving}: open line #1.ali v.http://www.blogger.com/profile/09543484458276238320noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-30407852434105308622011-02-15T10:57:06.284-05:002011-02-15T10:57:06.284-05:00I loved your advice and totally agree that this do...I loved your advice and totally agree that this doesn't sound worth putting up with/ waiting for! you said it wonderfully!khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12280510323058001105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-79171727404464676412011-02-14T06:36:35.056-05:002011-02-14T06:36:35.056-05:00nice thoughts on your reader's story. i am als...nice thoughts on your reader's story. i am also in a long distance relationship. we've just started and it is my first time. everything is so fresh between us and so far, everything is going well and i pray to have it last longer and even for the rest of my life. we are from the same country but different cities with an hour flight from the other city. we have agreed that he and i will exchange turnn in flying over the other city. and i am happy being organized with our LDR. right now, he's with me in my place for the Vday. =) <br /><br />happy heart's day everyone!onlyvichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11745942423691015836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-387344643810546042011-02-14T00:42:51.759-05:002011-02-14T00:42:51.759-05:00You gave great advice! And reading about her heart...You gave great advice! And reading about her heartbreak made me so thankful I'm not 'there' any more. One day she'll fall in love with a man that loves her and there won't be any games, and everything will become clear, and wonderful :-)Sara Louisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06058056977783867772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-47059618484285554212011-02-13T19:14:50.442-05:002011-02-13T19:14:50.442-05:00This is an awesome feature and you gave great advi...This is an awesome feature and you gave great advice! <br /><br />I wish you had been blogging on this topic when we dated long distance several years ago :)KT @ KT's Refinishing Schoolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07853398720912097572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-11324803801385825232011-02-13T19:14:50.066-05:002011-02-13T19:14:50.066-05:00I think this advice is excellent - good going - RE...I think this advice is excellent - good going - REALLY feel for the reader who asked this xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12970492441902797637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-10870609798340223162011-02-13T09:31:55.934-05:002011-02-13T09:31:55.934-05:00I never had a long distance relationship but Milit...I never had a long distance relationship but Military life is difficult. Your advice was right on. <br /><br /><br /><a href="http://writeitinlipstick.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Write it in lipstick</a>Melissa: Write it in Lipstickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16597105295464582590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-32435153864254455142011-02-13T08:28:56.524-05:002011-02-13T08:28:56.524-05:00your advice was so thoughtful and smart. i was in ...your advice was so thoughtful and smart. i was in a long distance relationship as well for a year and half before moving in with my boyfriend...and during that time we only saw each other twice! (he lives in italy) it was so hard but i felt that if it was our destiny to be together...then we would be someday.m_bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09588428960166182446noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-75507587991223826032011-02-13T06:50:44.321-05:002011-02-13T06:50:44.321-05:00Ohh Im so sorry for that girl and I totally agree ...Ohh Im so sorry for that girl and I totally agree with your advice. Hope she will be able to move on with time. Kisses and hugs, darling<br />Have a lovely SundayDiana Mieczanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15261207538442821812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-16064856553035245432011-02-12T23:12:53.277-05:002011-02-12T23:12:53.277-05:00I think your advice is perfect!I think your advice is perfect!Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01877343085128732700noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-39383791850431525922011-02-12T21:45:09.292-05:002011-02-12T21:45:09.292-05:00You are so sweet and wise! This post makes me thin...You are so sweet and wise! This post makes me think.Imahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05474562273397788933noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-30362003397837524742011-02-12T18:53:53.883-05:002011-02-12T18:53:53.883-05:00um, woah! what a story, i can totally understand t...um, woah! what a story, i can totally understand this and have been through a very similar circumstance. we never want to see the red flags that wave swiftly in front of our eyes. blind by love rules us a bit too much sometimes unfortch.<br /><br />i love your <i>"open line"</i> feature lades, great advice and insights. on my fridge sits a magnet with the words i try to live by every day <i>"the minute you settle for anything less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for"</i>. <br /><br />darn hard stuff, i will say a prayer for her. it must have been wonderful that she could come to you with this and have such support in return. you're awesome!!!! happy weekend. ♥Some Korean Website Highjackerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15557852358901252708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-85577575013096501992011-02-12T17:55:08.089-05:002011-02-12T17:55:08.089-05:00hello! i am a new follower! i was in a long distan...hello! i am a new follower! i was in a long distance relationship and happy to report we survived and thrived too! i like the concept of your blog!!! I look forward to connecting with you via blog!Aimeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05573687547502942005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-4954458816702311462011-02-12T17:48:32.403-05:002011-02-12T17:48:32.403-05:00Wow....I'm going to be writing you for relatio...Wow....I'm going to be writing you for relationship advice :) <br /><br />Ok, probably not, since I'm not in a relationship. If I was.Danihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08804079076361164325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-26733705503147087482011-02-12T14:08:54.473-05:002011-02-12T14:08:54.473-05:00Wow...this is an intense post. I am definitely wit...Wow...this is an intense post. I am definitely with you. This sweet reader deserves SO much more than this guy is willing to give. The fact that he left without saying anything to her is ridiculous in my opinion. He does not deserve her. Thanks for sharing this!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14723548534210723002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-63371984520303859712011-02-12T13:10:00.776-05:002011-02-12T13:10:00.776-05:00I was in a long distance relationship for 5 years....I was in a long distance relationship for 5 years. And it was worth every day. We have now lived together, in the same city for 3 years, and it made the 5 years worth the wait. It is hard, and it sucks and I wouldnt wish it on anyone. What I guess I'm attempting to say, is that, if it doesnt work, you want to know as soon as you can. Its too much work to put in for someone who isnt worth it. Your reader is lucky she learned this before he left.Alex {Things That Sparkle}https://www.blogger.com/profile/08014273868634989664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-30303992108897070272011-02-12T13:01:37.852-05:002011-02-12T13:01:37.852-05:00This advice is so honest and wise.
I am so thankf...This advice is so honest and wise. <br />I am so thankful I found your blog, I am sure that like me, many other girls will benefit from your advice. <br /><br />xo,<br />Ana*Dee Paulinohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16395771931723705072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-33002580409558848602011-02-12T12:25:38.348-05:002011-02-12T12:25:38.348-05:00wow, you are awesome, such a great and thoughtful ...wow, you are awesome, such a great and thoughtful response to her! One of my favorite quotes, "It's okay that you don't know where you're going as long as you know He does..."Seashells and Southern Belleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06878499558427399101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-35462606026173731622011-02-12T12:25:18.369-05:002011-02-12T12:25:18.369-05:00Thanks for posting this {av} and thanks to whoever...Thanks for posting this {av} and thanks to whoever story this is for sharing.<br /><br />Distance is SO hard. My boyfriend (of three years now) and I did distance from different continents for 6 months... he was in South Africa and I was in California and we weren't really sure where the whole thing was going. We met while I was studying abroad and we didn't really have a plan when I left.<br /><br />Sometimes it was really hard to keep in touch with a 9 hour time difference and only being able to use skype. Sometimes things got a little wierd when life got in the way and we would go a few days without talking... but we always worked through everything and both of us were able to confront the "tough stuff" like you said. We are also honest with eachother and were respectful enough to tell one another how we were feeling. I think that is key... once respect and/or trust is out the window, it will be almost impossible to hang on.<br /><br />I agree with your advice. She deserves better and will find better even if it takes longer than she would like... and she will be so much happier once she is with someone who isn't afraid to committ to her and loves her for who she is :)<br /><br />xoxo<br />JennaJennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07238434752028472905noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-27009597213756354582011-02-12T12:08:28.320-05:002011-02-12T12:08:28.320-05:00I dated my boyfriend long distance for four years....I dated my boyfriend long distance for four years. He was killed almost 2 years ago, and I feel like I am still healing. At this point, I don't even really talk about him because I don't want sympathy. I don't like it, and I feel like I end up comforting and assuring the sympathetic person. <br /><br />I have soo many thoughts and feelings on long distance relationships, guy behavior, and the definite end of a relationship. We had a lot of little semi sorta ends along the way. <br /><br />I really hope your friend has the strength to move on. I know it as taken me quite awhile, but I am finally in a pretty good place. I wish the same for her. <br /><br /><a href="http://www.rissyblogs.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">CarissaExplainsItAll</a>Rissyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05312653930595407377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8329513822232771648.post-55108555353303627262011-02-12T12:06:36.947-05:002011-02-12T12:06:36.947-05:00SUCH wonderful advice! My goodness, you really wen...SUCH wonderful advice! My goodness, you really went above and beyond in your response- so very insightful and kind! I will definitely come to you next time I find myself in a bind!Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07607985840484294642noreply@blogger.com